Tuesday, July 31, 2012

What is love?

Love a four letter word that can have so many different meanings.
When I was little I would have told you love was when a person said I love you, but I wouldn't know why the person was saying I love you. As I've grown older I've realized love isn't that easy.
Through the years everyone's definition or meaning of love changes.  When your in middle school one might consider holding hands and kissing, love.  In high school most people might think of sex when they think of love.  BUT WHAT IS LOVE?
At this point in my life I have realized true love and true friendships are hard to come by.  Sure love is letting people know you care, but I think most importantly love is about facing your fears.
Letting someone in can be hard, especially when you have seen so many people close to you get hurt.  But opening yourself up to someone even though there is that chance you could get hurt.  That alone is love, in my opinion.
So what is the true definition of love?  The answer being, there is none!  There are so many types of love that it can't just have one definition.
"Love is patient, love is kind.  It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud.  It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth.  It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres."

Monday, July 30, 2012

Taking Chances

When it comes to taking chances I'm usually the last to step in line.  Whether it's taking a chance on a guy or taking a chance on the latest fashion trend, I'm always one to second guess myself. Chances involve risks and I'm not one willing to risk many things. But being a senior in high school I have finally realized I need to start taking chances. Otherwise how will I know what could have been? 
Lucille Ball once said, "I'd rather regret the things I've done than regret the things I haven't done."
Ball was once among the best fashion icons and in my opinion, still is.  Most red heads don't tend to usually wear fire-engine red lip stick, but she did! She took a chance and it worked.  So like Ball I have started to take chances when it comes to what I'm wearing. Whether it be a cheetah skirt with bright, bold pumps out with my girls or mixing an old worn-out t-shirt with a fancy skirt to go on a date with my boyfriend. I'm taking chances, even if I will regret it. But even if I regret wearing bold pumps with a cheetah skirt I have noticed that once I start taking chances, people notice me.  Whether it be good or bad, they are still taking notice of me, and who doesn't love to be noticed?!
So I suggest to those of you who are reading this blog next time you start to second guess yourself, whatever it may be, TAKE A CHANCE and see what can be.

Sunday, July 22, 2012

"A girl's best accessory is her girlfriends besides her red lipstick, of course!"